What
is the significance of a funeral service?
How much does a funeral cost?
Is everything included in the price given
to me by the funeral home?
Can I make my funeral arrangements before
I die?
How many types of caskets exist, and why
are some more expensive than others?
What is embalming and is it necessary before
services are held?
Can a funeral home assist me with Social
Security benefits and Veteran death benefits?
I am a veteran and would like to be buried
in a national cemetery. Can my spouse be buried next to me?
What is involved in the cremation process?
Are special cremation containers and caskets
available?
Are the services held before or after cremation?
What happens to the cremated remains?
How can we memorialize cremation?
Answers to a child Questions about Death
What
is the significance of a funeral service?
From the beginning of history, societies have honored those
who passed through traditional ceremony. The purpose of the
ritual, according to beliefs at the time was to send the deceased
on their journey into the afterlife.
Today, however, many experts agree that the benefits of a
service are for those who are left behind after a death. To
help survivors adjust to their loss and recognize that death
has occurred, a "closure" of sorts must occur. A
funeral service provides the opportunity for friends and family
to celebrate life and allow the healing process to begin.
How
much does a funeral cost?
Funeral costs vary depending on the funeral home and type
of service you seek. There are two types of costs associated
with a funeral; services provided by the funeral home, and
merchandise, such as a casket. It is your right, mandated
by Federal Trade Commission regulations, that all charges
be listed, provided on a price list and made available by
phone, mail or in person.
Is
everything included in the price given to me by the funeral
home?
All charges involving the funeral home's services and merchandise
must be explained by your funeral director. We will provide
a general price list with all charges. Monies may be required
in advance for cash advances which may include expenses such
as opening and closing of the grave, the obituary, floral
arrangements, music, etc.
Can
I make my funeral arrangements before I die?
Yes. Today, pre-arrangement and pre-payment of funerals are
becoming very popular. This will provide you with more time
to review your options and give a choice in your own funeral
service. Pre-arrangement will provide you with the peace of
mind that everything has been taken care of, relieving your
family of the emotional and financial burden that often comes
with making arrangements when a loved one passes away. Often
times, making arrangements in advance also guarantees a service
and funeral at today's prices, free from inflation by locking
in current prices. At the Stephenson-Wyman Funeral Home, we'll
assist you with all your needs.
How
many types of caskets exist, and why are some more expensive
than others?
Most caskets are made of either metal (usually bronze, copper
or steel) or wood. Prices vary, depending on the material
used. Bronze caskets are more expensive than steel, as solid
hardwood is more expensive than softer wood varieties. All
funeral homes are required by law to provide you with a listing
of casket prices.
What
is embalming and is it necessary before services are held?
Embalming is the temporary preservation process of the deceased.
This surgical-like procedure involves injecting chemicals
into the deceased to produce a life-like appearance. This
helps to delay decomposition of the body, providing more time
for a viewing and/or service. Embalming is not required for
a burial, but it is a common practice when a viewing is planned.
Funeral homes are required to obtain permission to embalm,
according to the Federal Trade Commission Funeral Rule.
Can
a funeral home assist me with Social Security benefits and Veteran
death benefits?
Here at the Stephenson-Wyman, we will do more than just assist you
with securing these benefits. Our staff is trained to complete
all necessary paperwork to begin the benefits procedure and
will see that they are secured for the family in a timely
manner.
I am a veteran and would
like to be buried in a national cemetery. Can my spouse be
buried next to me?
Yes, a site for your spouse and any minor dependents can be
reserved when you pass on.
What
is involved in the cremation process?
A casket or container is inserted into a cremation chamber
with temperature 1600-1800 degrees Fahrenheit. All matter
is consumed by heat or evaporation within two hours. The only
thing left is the cremated remains, consisting of the bone
fragment residue. The remains are carefully removed from the
chamber, processed into fine particles and placed in a container
or urn. Correct identification is ensured with a carefully
controlled labeling system. The whole process takes about
three hours.
Are
special cremation containers and caskets available?
Cremation casket selection varies from cardboard to hardwood.
Many are quite affordable and totally combustible. Rental
caskets with special cremation container inserts are also
available.
Are
the services held before or after cremation?
Services are held at the discretion of the family. However,
most choose to have visitation and service first, followed
by the cremation.
What
happens to the cremated remains?
There are many options to consider with a cremation. A family
can choose to bury the cremains in a cemetery, store and display
them at home in an urn, or scatter them in a place special
to the deceased. It is advisable to check local restrictions
scattering remains on public property and get permission for
private property.
How
can we memorialize cremation?
There are several ways to memorialize a cremation. One option
is ground burial of the urn, marked with a granite marker,
bronze memorial or sculpture. Some cemeteries also offer cremation
niches in columbariums and others offer scattering gardens
which provides scenic landscape for the families to visit.
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